N.B:
Don’t be alarmed by any of it.
When you
ditch your closest friends and your brother to spend the worst New Year ever in
the most happening place in India, take a hint, you got some bad mojo to start
the year.
When
invited to visit the house of important people in your future life, accept
graciously or live with the decision, don’t crib about it every opportunity you
get even if it’s only in your head.
If you
imagine that your closest single friend will not take your getting hitched
well, if you feel uncomfortable, it’s called instinct, follow it, instead of
conducting an opinion poll & trying to garner support, you don’t need to
secretly obtain political support for your party.
You don’t
get points for forgetting to mail the invitations or sending them to the wrong
email id, that’s just an excuse. Whatsapp & Facebook are not replacements
of a telephone call.
If you
invite a friend from outside the city to an event remember to include him in
all the group gathering, anything else is an excuse.
Not
keeping in touch with friends who are abroad because you are engaged is exactly
the hypocritical thing you would hate. Making the effort to get on Skype for a
man instead of your friends makes you a loser.
Just
because a colleague and a friend did not reply to your sms or call doesn’t mean
you be an egoistic bitch, and complain to everyone about it. Calling her or
mailing her would have taken less time.
Blaming a
good friend for good solid advice which prevented you from doing something you
know you would have regretted is called being a bitch. God knows how many times
you have peddled advice; at least no body threw it back at your face.
Just
because you are not in the mood to attend to some surprise guests doesn’t mean
you can pounce on the under the guise of small talk or look bored, that’s just
misbehavior. The least expected is diplomacy & interpersonal skills, in all
walks of life. Not having the decency to call them and apologize immediately
just makes you a delusional & defensive idiot.
Just
because your vacation plans with your friends isn’t final doesn’t mean you don’t
share it till the last moment, that’s just plain rude and to defend yourself
over this is juvenile. Where’s the honest spirit in this? Try walking in the
other’s shoe for a minute.
Just
because you are in the habit of panicking before any travel doesn’t mean you
throw a public tantrum in the guise of a fake call to a friend & behave
hysterically & not bother to apologize & pretend to be the victim. You
know you are wrong but you would rather be the Ostrich.
Just because you have
lost a parent or left your job or got married shouldn’t be an excuse for anything
that you did or didn’t do, nor should that give anyone the right to dictate who
you are. Grow some ovaries. Do the right thing. Stand up for yourself.
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